So freaking furious!!!!!!!!!!

So like SERIOUSLY... When the doctor tells you flat out you have cancer and you're to stupid to realize the fact that HELLO you have something that could KILL you... and you don't see the effects that it has on the people who love you!  I am just speechless.... or sooo some people wish...


Here's what I got to say to ALL those out there who have an illness that maybe they can't cure but  if you change your habits whether it be diet, smoking, drinking, etc... whatever that bad habit is.. would mean that the illness would slow down instead of KILL you quicker and yet you sit and keep doing the same thing over and over... But, yet you can't figure out why your family get upset at you for not stopping and changing your behavior.....

SERIOUSLY...WAKE UP..... CAUSE THE NEXT ROSES YOU COULD BE SMELLING IS THE ONES BEING FERTILIZED BY YOUR OWN CORPSE!  

I was asked if this was a support forum and I said yeah.. I hope that everything I post in someway or another will help someone.. If nothing but see things from a loved ones point of view... and to let others know they are not alone.

There are many diseases that can be put into remission...or slowed down..... but if you're not willing to help yourself to make yourself better and to get to spend extra time with those who love you... Then how do you figure they should care if you don't.... If you don't help yourself no one else can do it for you...

If we could help things and change things for you and make life even that much easier and make you healthier I don't know one loved one that wouldn't do it in a heart beat.

Here's what I got to say today!  STOP BEING FREAKING SELFISH... THIS BATTLE'S NOT ONLY ABOUT YOU ANYMORE!

To those loved ones who are fighting the fight with your loved one.... I got something to say to you also.... DON'T GIVE UP ON THEM!  NO MATTER HOW STUBBORN THEY ARE DON'T GIVE UP....
REST ASSURED THAT THE PATH THEY CHOSE IN LIFE AND EITHER ARE CONTINUING DOWN OR THAT THEY HAVE CHANGED THEIR HABITS CONTINUE TO SUPPORT AND ENCOURAGE THEM...

TRUST ME I KNOW IT'S HARD TO SIT BY AND WATCH YOUR LOVED ONE DIE WHETHER IT'S FAST.... BY THEIR OWN DOINGS....OR WHETHER THEY GIVE YOU THAT EXTRA TIME WITH THEM.. ENJOY EACH AND EVERY MOMENT YOU HAVE WITH YOUR LOVED ONES...

AS MUCH AS WE DON'T WANT TO ADMIT IT...OUR LOVED ONES WON'T BE AROUND ALWAYS AND ALL WE CAN DO NO MATTER HOW MUCH IT HURTS, IS TO JUST BE THERE  FOR THEM AND JUST SHOW THEM HOW MUCH WE LOVE AND CHERISH THEM....