Father's Day...

Today started out pretty good for my hubby.... Then some body got their panties twisted... All because my hubby got a txt that just said "Happy Father's Day"  now granted that's fine... for a friend or a buddy.. but in my opinion when your child tells you "Happy Father's Day"  I don't know should be followed by an "I Love You"....

So, that started a whole war.. Not between my hubby and myself but between the child...  People don't realize that parents will NOT be around always.... and they take that for granted.  I am so beyond furious it's unreal.  Then to be accused that the reason one of the oldest kids keeps her panties up her butt is my fault!  She's never even met me.. Never even spoken to me.. Nothing.. But, yet I'm to blame... That's just to funny to me.. Because she was an adult (yes, 18 in the USA is considered and adult) so she can take the blame for  many many many things but instead blames her father for everything that's ever went wrong in her life... Just as her brother does.... I mean GROW UP!

Here's the bottom line... You CAN'T change the past.. you can only learn from it and move on through the future.  But, no people like to dwell on the past and then can't figure out why they are so miserable in their lives....


GET OVER IT.... THERE'S NOTHING THAT CAN CHANGE WHAT USED TO BE.....


What makes me furious is that my husband is constantly being judged on how he used to be.... not the person he is today...

AND EXCUSE US FOR ENJOYING SPENDING TIME TOGETHER.. .. which apparently bothers some people that my husband and I enjoy doing things together as a couple...

More people should be that way.. If you can't be happy with who you're with then why be with them?

Oh and another thing that gets me is that people who get assistance or apply for SSI/SSD is just trying to skate through life.... That's the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard in my life... If people get any of that apparently they need it!


If you have people in your life who are struggling... regardless if you are asked for their help or not... Don't be so judgmental.. Besides who are you to judge anyone? We have one judge  and that is God.... No one has any room or any place to judge another person!

God Bless